This is an autobiographical novel about the disastrous consequences of bullying, sexual abuse, identity crisis, intolerance and stigma. Bierma takes the reader into the rollercoaster ride of his life. He describes his emotions, confusion, questions, insights and pitfalls, which he encounters. He looks back on his eventful life in a frank and explicit way. He feels like he never lived up to expectations. That realization was the basis of the process for him to start building his life anew with a new identity.
Boris Bierma was born in The Hague in 1958. He lived in Hoek van Holland with his family and three children. He began his international career in Key Account Management. Due to the illness and death of his youngest son, he became depressed. He was a columnist for HVN. He wrote short stories and poems. In 2009, he started coaching to help people break blockades in their lives.